The Lazy Man’s Answer To Success

The Lazy Man's Answer To SuccessI have come to know absolutes in this business of personal growth over the years. I know absolutely that we were all born perfect. I know absolutely that the challenges we may face on our journey relate to the experiences we have had and conversely the affect they have on our belief system. I know Continue reading

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Change Happens At The Speed Of Life

Change Happens At The Speed Of LifeChange is like the elusive rainbow. We know they exist but it’s all but impossible to watch one form. In a group coaching session we were talking about one component from the program, which is what I call Continue reading

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Don’t Have A Plan “B”

Don't Have A Plan "B"Oh, how often we allow ourselves to get faked out into settling for less than we want. Less than we deserve. I spoke with a client who is going through a challenge. We all go through them. During the conversation about this challenge it was brought up that what had been defined as their goal would now likely have to change as a result of the situation. I could feel myself almost jumping through the phone, deflecting their hand away from pushing the “plan B” switch. Continue reading

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It’s Not About The Stuff

It's Not About The StuffA client told me of a fascinating story that left me thinking a great deal today about our connection to stuff. The story was about a man in the news who has backpacked around the world for the past 10 years. He spent most of his time travelling around third world countries. Amazing in itself and you are likely thinking that Continue reading

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Compare You To You

Compare You To YouI finally got around to booking a haircut. While waiting my turn I thumbed through a magazine that was there in a stand. I am always amazed that every magazine in hair salons are for women only. For all the men like Continue reading

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What We Take In

What We Take InDuring seminars and coaching sessions I often ask clients if they allow their children to watch violent video games or movies. The resounding answer is “no, of course not”. When pressed for their rationale, I normally hear back, “Because it will affect them in some way. It could affect their behavior”. Sound reasoning and realistic logic. Amazing then considering this that we don’t turn the same lens of the camera on ourselves. “Does what we take in have an affect on us?” Continue reading

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Anything Is Possible When You Have Faith

Anything Is Possible When You Have FaithMy little girl will turn 6 in the spring. Amazing how time marches on.  Last week and I was looking through pictures and mementos that have gathered along the way. Going through everything I cam across this perspective that was written 5 years ago and wanted to share it with you. Here it is. Continue reading

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Why Not?

Why Not?I sat down one evening to work on creating an edition of “Perspectives”. It is a fascinating process everyday to just allow the day to happen and trust that an event of the day will inspire me enough to want to write about it and share it with you. I read a quote that caused a movie to play back in my mind from a very long time ago. I was Continue reading

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The Lessons Of Failure

The Lessons Of FailureAn unfortunate aspect of society is that we are trained to believe that to fail is to, well fail.  Not true.  All you need do is look at every aspect of your life and you will see that failure is the very reason you have accomplished anything.  Failure to grasp an object when we Continue reading

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Emotion. The Secret Ingredient

Emotion. The Secret IngredientThere are three elements to life that produce results. They are opportunity, plan and activity.  Without these three, life has the tendency to stay where it is.  Look at where we live.  Opportunity surrounds us everyday in the marketplace, in our communities and families.  The chance to create a plan once a goal is chosen is available to you right this minute.  Taking action is the spark that can Continue reading

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